maya floyd, psychologist & psychotherapist

Recommended Reading

On Consolation: Finding Solace in Dark Times
Professor Michael Ignatieff
How do we console each other and ourselves in an age of unbelief? Esteemed writer and historian Michael Ignatieff shows how men and women in extremity have looked to each other across time to recover hope and resilience.
Recreating the moments when great figures found the courage to confront their fate and the determination to continue unafraid, On Consolation takes those stories into the present, movingly contending that we can revive these traditions of consolation to meet the anguish and uncertainties of our precarious twenty-first century.

What If We Stopped Pretending?
Jonathan Franzen
If you care about the planet, and about the people and animals who live on it, there are two ways to think about this. You can keep on hoping that catastrophe is preventable, or you can accept that disaster is coming, and begin to rethink what it means to have hope.

Stolen Focus
Johann Hari
We think our inability to focus is a personal failing a flaw in each one of us. It is not. This has been done to all of us by powerful external forces. Our focus has been stolen. Johann discovered there are twelve deep cases of this crisis, all of which have robbed some of our attention.

The Myth of Normal
Gabor Maté
Dr Mate connects the dots between our personal suffering and the pressures of modern-day living - with disease as a natural reflection of a life spent growing further and further apart from our true selves. But, with deep compassion, he also shows us a pathway to health and healing.

It Didn't Start with You
Mark Wolynn
Depression. Anxiety. Chronic pain. Phobias. Obsessive thoughts. The root of these difficulties may reside in the traumas of our parents, grandparents and even great-grandparents. Mark Wolynn has developed a pioneering approach to identifying and breaking these inherited family patterns.

The Road Less Travelled
M. Scott Peck
Confronting and solving problems is a painful process, which most of us attempt to avoid. Drawing heavily upon his own professional experience, Dr. M. Scott Peck, a practicing psychiatrist, suggests ways in which confronting and resolving our problems can enable us to reach a higher level of self-understanding.

Solitude: A Return to the Self
Anthony Storr
Storrbook argues that solitude ranks alongside relationships in its impact on an individual’s well-being and productivity, challenging the paradigm that “interpersonal relationships of an intimate kind are the chief, if not the only, source of human happiness.”

Stepping Off the Relationship Escalator
Amy Gahran
Love and relationships are not one-size-fits-all. If you want to explore unconventional relationships, or simply to understand your options, you'll find guidance here. This is a friendly starting point for people to understand relationships don't always follow the norm.

Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
Dr Lindsay Gibson
This book will help you gain the insight to move on from feelings of loneliness and abandonment and find healthy ways to meet your own emotional needs away from the four main types of emotionally immature parents: Emotional parents, Driven parents, Passive parents, and Rejecting parents.

Lost Connections
Johann Hari
Depression and anxiety are now at epidemic levels. Why? Across the world, scientists have uncovered evidence for nine different causes. Lost Connections shows that once we understand the real causes, we can begin to turn to pioneering new solutions - ones that offer real hope.

The Body Keeps The Score
Bessel Van Der Kolk
Dr van der Kolk offers a new paradigm for effectively treating traumatic stress. The Body Keeps the Score sheds new light on the routes away from trauma - which lie in the regulation and syncing of body and mind, using sport, drama, yoga, mindfulness, meditation and other routes to equilibrium.

Man's Search For Meaning
Viktor E Frankl
Frankl argues that we cannot avoid suffering but we can choose how to cope with it, find meaning in it, and move forward with renewed purpose. Logotherapy holds that our primary drive in life is not pleasure, but the discovery and pursuit of what we personally find meaningful.

The Art of Receiving and Giving
Betty Martin
Why would most people endure unwanted or unsatisfying touch, rather than speak up for their own boundaries and desires? Betty guides the reader through the Wheel of Consent framework, and shares practices to help us recover the ability to notice what we want and set clear boundaries.

The Discovery of Being
Rollo May
The brilliant psychologist Rollo May was a major force in existential psychology. He pays particular attention to the causes of loneliness and isolation and to our search to find new and firm moorings in order to move toward a future where responsibility, creativity, and love can play a role.



